I am 44 years young and I was raised by my single mother and Grandparents. I come from U.S. Military families, three generations on both sides. That being said, I was raised to love openly and freely. I have always been a Straight Heterosexual, but I do like group play as long as the women get to pick out who they go with. And all the guys are not fighting over the control all the time. Safe words and traffic light signals are a good idea also.